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Sometimes, it's all about family.

My eldest brother and his family used to live in Columbus, OH and they've finally moved back home like good little boys and girls. Don't get me wrong, I love my brother to death, but LAWD his kids...I love those three like my own daughter...you would think I had those three myself (thankfully I didn't - could you imagine how I would look from the stress of raising FOUR kids?!?)

 We spent Memorial Day weekend together in Rock Hill; Aviana, Dorrien, Donovon and Houston had a damn good time running around the apartment, getting to know each other. My brother and I had a few beers and gave each other a hard time, just like in the old days before we grew up. My mom, I know, had a good time watching us talk. There was a perpetual smile on her face and one on mine, as well. It felt wonderful being around everyone and just vibing. Laughter was contagious and the love was unmistakable. I was definitely aware of how blessed I was to have such amazing people to call my family despite our many ups and downs and numerous rifts. You see, my brother and I had a falling out after our father died in 2008...I'm sure those that knew us probably figured we were gonna beef for a long time; hell, we didn't even speak for awhile. It was one of the most painful times of my life...we had just lost our dad, my partner in crime. This past weekend, I couldn't help but regret, a little, the time we wasted. Life is too short...hell, my life may be shorter than most because of poor decision-making. With that in mind, it is sooo vital to enjoy weekends like that. It's important to appreciate family.

So with that in mind, I loved this weekend spent in Rock Hill & nothing will replace it. Love your family and, no matter what happens, take advantage of EVERY opportunity to spend with each other 'cause IT'S ALL ABOUT FAMILY.