Let me start off by saying that I’m not against child
support nor harbor ill will towards some people that receive it. Notice I said
“some.” As long as it’s being used for the good of the child, I’m all for it.
For those of you who are always clean and fresh but your kids (all 5+ of them)
look busted…I have a problem with YOU. Before some of you start yammering – I
am a mother of one. ONE. I chose to have only one because one is what I know I
can comfortably take care of on my own. Again, before you start poppin lip –
her father and I are together, happily holdin it down. My daughter may not look
like a rich kid, but she doesn’t look like an orphan, either. Her clothes and
shoes are clean and they FIT, her hair is fixed and she’s an extremely healthy
soon to be 3 year old. Don’t get it twisted.
There are too many instances of women collecting exorbitant
amounts of child support and the money isn’t being used properly. The father
still has to come out of pocket for clothes and other items because the
children visit him in dirty clothes carrying dirty clothes. Chances are these
same women are given SNAP benefits/EBT and the children still complain about
not having enough food to eat when they visit their fathers. ABC vouchers are also
handed out and these women send their kids to daycare not so they can at least
work a P/T gig, but so they can lay up with their boyfriend, practicing making
more kids. Or, they’ve got some side hustle they don’t want the little ones to
see. Mom is dressed in brand new Baby
Phat, stilettos, freshly weaved up with recently done, ridiculously long gel
nails, her boyfriend is dressed down in Coogi, limited edition Jordans and a
fitted cap and the kids…look like orphans when they go out. Hand-me-downs,
shoes run over to one side and no haircut or hairdo. Not even some simple
cornrows.
Huh? What the f#@k?
You then talk about how hard you have it, trying to raise
your “babies” that you love so much; you even call them by name out in public
knowing good and well when you guys are at home they are little “niggas.” Your
baby daddy (or in some cases, daddies) isn’t/aren’t paying enough child support
you tell any and every one who’ll listen…you tell your kids every chance you
get, “your father ain’t s%#t” even though he’s forced, by the courts, to give
you at least half of his paycheck plus carry insurance (health, dental and
vision) on the kids that you made together. You work HARD at taking care of kids. Yet, you aren’t required to pay
anything. You aren’t even forced to work. You just sit back and chill.
Yeah, right. You work hard, alright…work hard at being
trifling. END OF STORY. PERIOD.
TO BE CONTINUED….