Tsk, Tsk SHAME ON YOU

Ladies – some of us need our ass kicked.

You know the ones I’m talking about – the ones who have a decent man at home who takes care of the kids, cleans house and finds the time to spend with her lame ass after working 8+ hours a day. He works so much his woman doesn’t have to work. He doesn’t say much, but all he expects is some hot food when he’s hungry, clean clothes, some loving at night, and a little respect. Too much to ask for? No.

What do you do, though? Absolutely…NOTHING. Since you didn’t get up with him at 6 am, your man went to work on an empty stomach with 2 bologna and cheese sandwiches for lunch. When you finally got up, you decided gossiping with your friends, watching TV and snacking were more important than washing clothes and fixing a little something to stick to your man’s ribs (which, by the way, are showing because those sandwiches were gone 3 hours before he came home.) So, when your boo comes home, the kids are home from daycare/school and running around and he has to settle for what? Wait for it – BOLOGNA AND CHEESE SANDWICHES that he had to fix for himself and the kids! Needless to say, he takes care of the home the rest of the day, gets the kids situated and put to bed thinking he’s gonna relieve a little stress by breaking his woman’s back and BOOM. You hit him with, “Me and some of my girls are going to the club tonight.” Really? Why in the hell would you want to do that to your man?

Ladies, good men are not a dime a dozen. If you have a man that goes above and beyond for you, take care of him. Pamper him a little. Show him he is appreciated by doing the little things he likes. Respect him. Let him know that YOU know he is a keeper. There are too many women out there, circling like vultures, that will come in and swoop your boo up because they know he is solid gold. They will treat him the way your triflin’ ass should’ve treated him and of course, you’ll want to fight. The only person you should be fighting is yourself.

That’s all I have to say. Carry on.